Dear Dora,
What advice could you give to a woman who has never had any kind of sex with/performed oral sex on an uncircumcised man before? Like: what am I supposed to do with his foreskin - do I pull it back during fellatio, or no? Do you pull the foreskin back when you put the condom on? Any tips, tricks, advice, warnings welcome.
Unsure with the Uncut
Dear Un,
The answer to your first question also answers the second question. The foreskin pretty much takes care of itself in this area. The most common experience is that when a man becomes erect, the foreskin sort of pulls back on it's own to reveal the head either partially or fully, depending on the penis. As far as condoms go, I highly recommend investing in the XL size of condoms. The foreskin adds, on average, 8 square inches of skin to the penis (compared to a circumcised man). So girth is a factor and they need more room. I've noted before that the foreskin is very much it's own sex organ. It covers the entire shaft of the penis and is attached at the base...in fact, attached isn't the right word - it's just part of their body.
Tips for manual: This extra layer of skin on the penis is
highly sensitive to light touch - so teasing with soft strokes and kisses is
good. You will find that when you put your hand around it, the foreskin
will move with your grasp, this makes manual work quite easy without much need
for lube. You will also notice that while you are doing this, the
foreskin will come back up over the head at times so don't be alarmed by
that. I'm sure if the guy has any issues with pain because of stretchy
skin, he will warn you.
Tips for oral: The techniques that you normally use on a circumcised man will
work just as well with a natural man but there are some extra moves to pull out
of your hat. Explore the folds of skin at the underside of the head where
the theoretical male clitoris is located. When you have your mouth around
it, move your tongue along the bottom ridge of the head, back and forth, up and
down and in a circle in that area. His favorite move will become apparent. ;)
No warnings are necessary - just have FUN!
